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Mindful Monday: Pre-Mother’s Night

Image created by Connla Freyjason using digital elements and papers from January Gathering: A Winter’s Tale, available in our store by clicking this image (opens in new tab), as well as our upcoming Imramma. Digital painting of the Disir by Fenrir for Iaconagraphy. Poetry original, by Connla Freyjason.

That’s right: Pre-Mother’s Night!  That’s how I choose to view the American holiday of Thanksgiving, that oft-maligned feast of ultimate political incorrectness (Pilgrims and Indians, really?) that is, for most, an excuse to pig out on copious amounts of turkey and fall asleep watching football.  It is also the ultimate Kitchen Witch’s holiday, and this year, I am looking very forward to actually being in the kitchen with my favorite Kitchen Witch: my Beloved, Suzanne.

“The Kitchen Witch of it all” is in large part why I see Thanksgiving as a sort of Pre-Mother’s Night celebration.  For those unfamiliar with the Norse-derived observance of Mother’s Night, it traditionally falls on the eve before the Winter Solstice, and is more or less the “kick-off” of the Yule season (which either runs for the 12 days following December 21st, or from December 21-January 12, depending on your source material).  It is a night to toast Frigga, Frau Holda, and Freyja, and also to honor the Disir, including those female ancestors who have paved the way for us.  In other words, it is a night to thank those women (Goddesses, as well as goddesses-in-their-own-right) who were bastions of the Hearth and Home: we’re talking about more than the “glorified housewife” here, folks; we’re talking about recognizing women as the heart and soul and guardians of what it means to be us, as human beings.  Since falling in love with Suzanne a few years ago, she has taught me that the heart of Kitchen Witchery is one very simple maxim: Food is love.  If you’ve ever been blessed with eating her food, you know, as I do, that you can literally taste the love in it. And that is why Thanksgiving has become, for us, Pre-Mother’s Night: it is a time for us to begin (a bit early) to show our gratitude to the Disir, for in our house, we understand that gratitude is one of the most vital outpourings of love that anyone can give.

Subliminally, in my heart and mind, I have always understood Thanksgiving as a part of Yuletide.  While everyone else is sitting around complaining that there are already Christmas decorations available at Wal-Mart in the heart of October, I am secretly rubbing my hands together in anticipation of the Yuletide cheer I can spread throughout our humble home.  That has always been a part of me: long before I ever dreamed of becoming a chronic crafter, I was a chronic “Christmas nut”.  Even as a child, I would get very upset if my Mother didn’t put up the tree before Thanksgiving, and many was the time that I was scolded for asking out loud (in the home of someone who had not dutifully decorated pre-Thanksgiving) “why don’t they have their tree up yet, Mama?  Don’t they know it’s almost-Christmas?” Because to me, almost-Christmas was a holiday season unto itself: that quiet time before the holiday rush when people could actually contemplate and enjoy the Yuletide season.

My first year in Massachusetts, when November rolled around, I immediately began plotting almost-Christmas: “Look, Honey, we can put the tree up there, and I can do a glorious run of garland down that banister over there, and we can do another garland over the sink, maybe with peppermints? And we can cuddle on the couch and enjoy the warmth of all of it, and eat yummy things, and remind ourselves why we’re so thankful!” And she looked at me like I had lost my ever-loving mind!  “It’s not even Thanksgiving yet! We don’t decorate for Christmas until December.”  I was literally agape; I was horrified!  No almost-Christmas?  This cannot be! But there has been no almost-Christmas for four long years…..

Long before I was remotely Heidhrinn, I somehow understood that the period between Samhain (Alfablot) and the end of Yule was a season unto itself.  Samhain (Alfablot) marks the beginning of a season when the “veils are thin”:  it is understood as the beginning of the Dark Half of the Year in most Pagan circles in the northern hemisphere.  At Samhain (Alfablot) the Dead and other denizens of the Otherworld begin to more easily make their way into our mundane world.  That doesn’t end the moment you pack up your Halloween decorations; it is a phenomenon which continues through Yule, and even slightly after, until the dawn of February.  It is a time for contemplation and introspection, but also a time for gratitude, that most sincere expression of love.  And within that gratitude, we also find cause for joy: hence, Yule.

So pre-Mother’s Night may not officially be a “thing”, but it is at our house, and as we hurtle towards Thanksgiving on Thursday, here at our house, we will not only be preparing to pig out on turkey and fall asleep watching football.  We will also be lighting candles and incense on our altars, placing images of our beloved female Ancestors in a prominent place upon them, and pouring blot to Frigga and to Freyja and to the other Disir. And I will be preparing those first forays of decorating for what I once called almost-Christmas, but now understand as that solemn time of quiet gratitude and love that lays the foundation for the joy of Yule‘Tis the season!



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Craftvana: Mabon Blessings!

Most Pagans do some sort of ritual observance for Mabon: maybe a dinner, ala Thanksgiving for other folks, or a full-blown ritual with candles burning and expressions of gratitude to Deity by all participants. As for me, I took the opportunity to put the crafting back in the phrase “Craft of the Wise”!


Okay, I’ll admit it: I was initially motivated to make this card by the Colour Queen and Retro-Sketch Challenges this week. But the Equinox is the 21st (and/or 22nd) of September (thus, Mabon), and I made this on the Equinox, so this card also served as my observance of Mabon.

The ColourQ palette this week was this:


That palette simply begged for me to use the papers, ephemera, and vellum Sentiments from my new freebie set, Mabon Blessings. The large sunflowers in the Mabon Blessings ephemera would also be perfect for the sketch this week at Retro-Sketches:


The card began as a 5 x 5 square Kraft cardstock blank.  I then printed Mabon Blessings Paper 4:Acorn and Oak at 5 x 5, and distressed the edges with my Tim Holtz Tonic Paper Distressor.  That was applied to the front of the card using Glossy Accents from Ranger. The band assemblage consists of a Kraft cardstock remnant, dressed up with washi tape, jute, and baker’s twine.  The large sunflower is from Mabon Blessings Ephemera 1, attached with a pop dot, and the sentiment is from Mabon Blessings Vellum Sentiments (attached with a Pioneer tape runner).  The teeny tiny acorns (which have just a little bit of glitz) are from a set of autumn stickers that I just happened to have on hand.


The process of making the card was like a mini-meditation. As I assembled the pieces, I took the time to ponder all of the things I’m truly grateful for in our lives right now:

  • I’m thankful for the people in my life, who love us so much, and who take care of us, and who I love in return, and try to take care of the best ways I know how.
  • I’m thankful for the turning leaves, as I know they mean a return to cooler and less humid weather, which in turn means more pain-free days for Mishy, me, and the rest of the mice.
  • I’m thankful for these challenges, which keep me creating new things every week, and fuel my passion for paper and graphic design.
  • I’m thankful for each and every one of the wonderful people who have subscribed to our mailing list and liked us on Facebook, and who are reading this blog right now, and for all of your continued support.
  • I’m thankful for the fact that we can bring a little joy and beauty into people’s lives through the papers and ephemera that we design.
  • I’m extremely thankful for all of the beautiful things folks here have said in response to the sets we have offered as free gifts. Those keep me going even on the difficult days.
  • I’m thankful for the opportunity to grow this business for Michelle, and perhaps bring her (and us) some much-needed independence in our future.
  • I’m thankful for the time you just took to read this all the way to the end!

Blessed be!



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Mabon Blessings!

For those of us in the Pagan Community, Thanksgiving doesn’t just come in November: we have our first Thanksgiving in September!  So we wanted to do something really special to thank all of YOU for all of your support:

Mabon Blessings is an 8 x 8 set of 6 artist papers that includes a fussy cut page, 2 ephemera sheets, and a little something new we’re trying: Sentiments that are specially designed for printing on vellum.  Even if you aren’t a member of the Pagan Community, this set is great for getting a head start on all of your Thanksgiving papercrafting!

With a decidedly Tuscan feel, Mabon Blessings is very much a team effort, featuring The Warrior as lead designer, and combining artwork by:



















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And you can download it right now just by clicking on the image below!